December 15th, 2009
So my last post was talking about how excited I was to see the new episode of HBO’s Real Sex, so I watched! And what did I learn? Quite a few things actually! This particular episode, Stocks down; Sex up, was showing what Americans are doing to spice up their sex lives on a budget. The show, for those of you who haven’t watched before, is broken into segments.
The first segment showed an increase in the number of corporate women who have recently lost their executive positions and are now turning to the entertainment industry to replace their lost income. How are they doing this? Stripping!!! It followed 2 women as they attempt to break into the world of stripping and why they are doing it. The first woman was a high executive who was laid off, and she thought about how much money her clients would spend at gentlemen’s clubs so she wanted to earn some of that money herself! She actually did pretty well, and the experienced dancers showed her the ropes and helped to build her confidence. Don’t think you want to be a stripper full-time but maybe just in the privacy of your home? Check out My Sexy Little Pole to fulfill those fantasies!
The second segment showed women and men in craft groups making their own sex toys! Now I agree there are some toys that are pretty expensive, and if you don’t have the money there usually is a more affordable alternative. For example, would you like the top of the line Tickled Pink triple stimulator vibe? Hell yeah….who wouldn’t?! With a price tag of $110 it’s not in everyone’s budget so look for an alternative until you can afford what you really want. Why not try out Eager Beaver? It’s not as fancy or flashy as the Tickled Pink, but it does offer both a vibrating clitoral stimulator along with a rotating tip and the price tag on this one is only $39.50. Preview both and compare, the Eager Beaver is a good starter multi-stimulator to have! Now in the show, the women were making their own clitoral stimulators out of celery and cucumbers, along with a silver bullet. If you would like to try that, go for it…..and purchase your bullet here!
The third segment was all about some pornographic photography! Now you don’t need to hire a photographer, enlist a friend to help if you are comfortable with that or allow your partner to help you out. It’s a lot cheaper to make your own photos and films than to purchase any and most of the time it’s a lot more exciting!
The last segment was focusing on the wonderful world of phone sex! Talking dirty to your partner is the easiest and cheapest thing you can do to add some spice. Who doesn’t like to be told what to do occasionally? And who doesn’t like to hear a satisfied partner? Give it a try to get things going during a long day of work or while out of town on a business trip, who knows what the rewards might be when your partner is available again!
So the ideas it gave were pretty simple, use your imagination! What are you tips or tricks for adding spice on a budget? How about adding one small toy to the toy chest and using what you already have, but in a new way! Change your routine, add some excitement and see what happens next!
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November 2nd, 2009
Sex, sex, sex…..that’s not all there is to talk about! Yet, everyone wants to know how to have great mind-blowing, curl-your-toes sex!
Wouldn’t it be that nice if there were a list of instructions on how to orgasm like that every time, wouldn’t it be great if we all came with a manual of do’s and don’ts? NO…that would be too easy and so boring! So what would my suggestion be on how to have great sex? Easy, follow these few steps and it just might give you a push in the right direction!
- Be open-minded. Now I’m not saying you have to be willing to try everything under the sun, I’m just saying don’t always say no. Step a little outside of your comfort zone, you’ll never know if you like it, if you aren’t even willing to try something new.
- Relax. Easier said than done when it comes to sex. You are at your most vulnerable when you are being intimate with another person but you also need to feel comfortable and relaxed. Every heard of someone enjoying something when they weren’t relaxed? I didn’t think so, so make sure you feel comfortable and aren’t feeling pressured. If you have a good partner, it should be this way every time anyhow.
- Communicate. Talk if you need to, and if you want to talk dirty that is another way to get your point across. No one gets hurt feelings if they are pointed in the right direction, so don’t be rude about it “Hey haven’t you ever done this before?!” Is more likely to cause a problem than help you reach that sought after climax, so choose your words and actions wisely. Point your partner in the right direction, if they still aren’t getting it, tell them what you want. Most guys love for a woman to take control and tell them exactly what they want and how to do it, give it a try.
Now if you can master these three and still aren’t finding your joyous climax; then maybe it’s time to introduce some things into the bedroom to add some spice and help you out…
Does he notice you when you want him to? Increase your natural pheromones to bring his nose in the right direction! He won’t even know why he is so hot and bothered unless you tell him, so try some of our pheromone enriched products to get things moving.
How can you get things started? Everyone loves a good massage, use some oils, light some candles and play some music. If that doesn’t give him the idea of what is to come, try the direct approach and just strip him down!
Is your man having problems staying as long as you need him to? Why not try Forever Yours Prolong Cream…..there’s even a way to apply the product without making him feel too self aware that you want things to last longer. Not only does Forever Yours desensitize him it helps to rid your throat of that awful gag reflex so that you can apply it with a little oral foreplay mixed in!
Once you’ve got him going, help him help you reach your climax! Remember, most women require some external clitoral stimulation too, so don’t forget to point that out if he forgets to do it!
Lots of things can be done to improve upon your ordinary sex life…and many more articles will follow giving more advice and tips! Stay tuned….and leave comments on anything you’ve tried both successfully and unsuccessfully.
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