Make that money…..or save that money?

December 15th, 2009

So my last post was talking about how excited I was to see the new episode of HBO’s Real Sex, so I watched! And what did I learn? Quite a few things actually! This particular episode, Stocks down; Sex up, was showing what Americans are doing to spice up their sex lives on a budget. The show, for those of you who haven’t watched before, is broken into segments.

The first segment showed an increase in the number of corporate women who have recently lost their executive positions and are now turning to the entertainment industry to replace their lost income. How are they doing this? Stripping!!! It followed 2 women as they attempt to break into the world of stripping and why they are doing it. The first woman was a high executive who was laid off, and she thought about how much money her clients would spend at gentlemen’s clubs so she wanted to earn some of that money herself! She actually did pretty well, and the experienced dancers showed her the ropes and helped to build her confidence. Don’t think you want to be a stripper full-time but maybe just in the privacy of your home? Check out My Sexy Little Pole to fulfill those fantasies!

The second segment showed women and men in craft groups making their own sex toys! Now I agree there are some toys that are pretty expensive, and if you don’t have the money there usually is a more affordable alternative. For example, would you like the top of the line Tickled Pink triple stimulator vibe? Hell yeah….who wouldn’t?! With a price tag of $110 it’s not in everyone’s budget so look for an alternative until you can afford what you really want. Why not try out Eager Beaver? It’s not as fancy or flashy as the Tickled Pink, but it does offer both a vibrating clitoral stimulator along with a rotating tip and the price tag on this one is only $39.50.  Preview both and compare, the Eager Beaver is a good starter multi-stimulator to have! Now in the show, the women were making their own clitoral stimulators out of celery and cucumbers, along with a silver bullet. If you would like to try that, go for it…..and purchase your bullet here!

The third segment was all about some pornographic photography! Now you don’t need to hire a photographer, enlist a friend to help if you are comfortable with that or allow your partner to help you out. It’s a lot cheaper to make your own photos and films than to purchase any and most of the time it’s a lot more exciting!

The last segment was focusing on the wonderful world of phone sex! Talking dirty to your partner is the easiest and cheapest thing you can do to add some spice. Who doesn’t like to be told what to do occasionally? And who doesn’t like to hear a satisfied partner? Give it a try to get things going during a long day of work or while out of town on a business trip, who knows what the rewards might be when your partner is available again!

So the ideas it gave were pretty simple, use your imagination! What are you tips or tricks for adding spice on a budget? How about adding one small toy to the toy chest and using what you already have, but in a new way! Change your routine, add some excitement and see what happens next!